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Where to eat with picky eaters

The usual solution is to give up and go somewhere with a menu so broad it is good at nothing. That works, in the sense that everyone eats, and it is also why the same group has been to the same three places for two years.

It helps enormously to know which kind of picky you are dealing with, because they need opposite solutions. Texture-averse eaters can usually handle bold flavours as long as nothing is slimy, mushy, or unexpectedly cold. Flavour-averse eaters want mild, and will eat almost any texture. Novelty-averse eaters are fine with both and simply will not order something they cannot picture.

Once you know which one it is, the target changes. For a novelty-averse eater, a specialised restaurant with one recognisable dish is much better than a broad menu — a ramen shop has exactly one thing on it and that thing is noodles in soup, which is picturable. For a texture-averse eater, a grill is safer than a curry house, regardless of how broad either menu is.

The move that almost always works, across all three: somewhere that cooks one protein well and lets you choose the surroundings. Grilled meat and rice, a taqueria, a rotisserie, a pizza place with plain on the menu. Plainness available on request beats plainness as the house style.

What to look for:

Try this search

Savor Scout takes a sentence rather than a category, so the criteria above can go straight into the box. For this, something like “grilled meat and rice, simple menu, sauces on the side” works — it reads menus and reviews for those specific things and comes back with one place and the reasons it picked it.

Search “grilled meat and rice, simple menu, sauces on the side” →

What usually goes wrong

Tasting menus, shared-plates-only restaurants, and anywhere the entire menu is one strong flavour profile. Also avoid making it a discussion at the table — deciding in advance is a kindness to the picky eater, who generally knows they are the constraint and does not enjoy it.

If you're deciding as a group

If the group is big enough that there is more than one picky eater, stop negotiating and use a room. Each person gets a veto, which lets someone remove the place they genuinely cannot eat at without having to explain themselves to five people.

What to eat

Worth considering here: pizza, tacos, fried chicken, sandwiches, barbecue.

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